S1E14 - Love Languages w/ Bailey and Katrina (Part 2)
- The Talkative Introvert
- Jan 18, 2021
- 27 min read
Episode Description:
In this episode, I have some special guests on with me! If you listened to episode 11, then you’ve already met Katrina. She joins me today along with another one of our best friends, Ms. Bailey! These ladies join me as we talk about our love languages. We guess each other’s love language and reveal what we got on the quiz.
If you’re interested in knowing about the 5 different love languages and figuring out what you are, here’s the link to the quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Please let me know what you got. Do you agree with the quiz? Why or why not? Katrina's YT Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/katrinalim289
Disclaimer:
Some parts of the transcript may be edited for better readability, but the content remains the same. Mostly removed duplicate words, vocal filler words, and added/removed some words for clarification.
Transcript:
Continuation from Part 1...
Meliza Manalo 32:28
No, but yeah. I totally get what you're saying. Cuz yeah, I'm just always busy.
Bailey 32:35
I know. It takes me a month to be penciled into your busy schedule.
Meliza Manalo 32:39
Yeah, oh my God. I stopped...
Bailey 32:41
You're so popular.
Meliza Manalo 32:42
I stopped buying planners though. Cuz I was like, I'll just do it electronically. Like killing too many trees with my plans. So, the quarantine, no actually even with the quarantine. That sounds really bad to say 'Stay safe. Wear a mask', but...
Bailey 32:59
I love wearing a mask. The only thing I don't like about it is it makes my acne really bad.
Meliza Manalo 33:03
Oh, yeah.
Katrina 33:04
Oh, yeah. Me too.
Meliza Manalo 33:04
Oh, I think mine went away. But I was getting major acne on my chin.
Bailey 33:09
I have to wash it a lot.
Meliza Manalo 33:10
Because I don't get acne. But these masks. Man! They're killing me. Like my nose...
Bailey 33:15
They need to come out with a laundry detergent that you can use in your sink for mask that has salicylic acid in it or something.
Meliza Manalo 33:22
They probably do.
Bailey 33:24
What if I could just wash my mask with my salicylic acid bodywash stuff?
Meliza Manalo 33:29
Sure. (Laughter)
Bailey 33:29
Like the inside of it. You don't know what salicylic is?
Meliza Manalo 33:35
I know what it is. But I mean, let us know how that works. For cleaning your mask.
Bailey 33:39
Oh, I will on my next appearance.
Meliza Manalo 33:41
Okay. (Laughter)
Bailey 33:46
So, you.
Meliza Manalo 33:47
Oh mine. So, are you done?
Bailey 33:49
Wait, what's your least one though?
Meliza Manalo 33:51
Yeah, what is your least one?
Katrina 33:52
Receiving gifts.
Meliza Manalo 33:52
Receiving gifts.
Katrina 33:53
Because I already said.
Meliza Manalo 33:54
Yeah, makes sense.
Bailey 33:57
You don't like gifts?
Katrina 33:58
No, I love gifts. But I mean like... (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 34:01
No one hates gifts.
Katrina 34:02
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 34:02
It's just lower on the totem pole.
Katrina 34:05
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 34:06
And I guessed that because you always want to do something.
Bailey 34:08
Oh, for the birthday?
Meliza Manalo 34:09
Yeah. Not really gifts.
Bailey 34:11
But this year sucks. Because we didn't do like, I feel like we didn't do anything.
Katrina 34:15
The 25th yeah.
Meliza Manalo 34:15
Yeah. Cuz that's when we went locked down.
Katrina 34:17
That's all good.
Bailey 34:18
I didn't even get any feedback on my gift.
Katrina 34:21
I haven't gotten it yet.
Meliza Manalo 34:22
Oh, for real?
Bailey 34:23
Wait, are you serious?
Katrina 34:25
Yeah. Did you ship it to my house?
Meliza Manalo 34:27
No. Because you have it.
Katrina 34:29
You have it.
Meliza Manalo 34:30
Oh my God. You're gonna get that right now?
Bailey 34:33
Yeah.
Katrina 34:33
No!
Bailey 34:36
Why not?
Katrina 34:36
Later.
Bailey 34:37
Okay.
Meliza Manalo 34:38
Yeah, that'll be our quality time without the invisible guest. But that's the hard part.
Bailey 34:43
Good point.
Katrina 34:44
Like, I love receiving gifts from other people. But I'm not the one that's like, "Oh, you have to get me a gift on my birthday."
Bailey 34:50
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 34:50
Yeah.
Katrina 34:50
And also, I'm really hard at showing my emotion when I open.
Meliza Manalo 34:56
Me too. I feel like a sociopath sometimes.
Bailey 34:59
I'm not.
Katrina 35:00
Yeah. I know, when we gave you your mixer, that was so cool.
Meliza Manalo 35:04
I love giving you gifts. You're the best person to give gifts to. Because you appreciate everything. Every little thing.
Bailey 35:09
Y'all are so good at getting good gifts though.
Meliza Manalo 35:11
Hell yeah, we are.
Bailey 35:13
I need to bake something.
Meliza Manalo 35:14
Yeah.
Bailey 35:15
I still need to make you those cookies.
Meliza Manalo 35:17
Bailey is a great baker.
Katrina 35:18
Reese's. Make something with Reese's butter Cups.
Bailey 35:21
You want me to make Reese's?
Katrina 35:22
No, I said make something with.
Meliza Manalo 35:25
Peanut butter and chocolate mmmmm.
Bailey 35:27
Oh, I should make some brownies with the Reese's peanut butter Cups in the middle.
Meliza Manalo 35:30
Yeah. Oh Casey, you need to try those peanut Butter Cups. Anyways, sorry.
Bailey 35:36
No, I'm going to do half Reese's peanut Butter Cups in the same brownie batch and then the other half is going to be cookie butter.
Katrina 35:42
Oooh.
Meliza Manalo 35:43
Oooh. That sounds good.
Bailey 35:47
That sounds so bomb right now.
Meliza Manalo 35:49
Yeah, it does. Okay. So, we talked about the least favorite.
Bailey 35:53
Okay. What's your least favorite? It's gifts okay. Okay, I think you're number one...
Meliza Manalo 36:00
So, this is... I took the couple one. So...
Bailey 36:04
It's hard. It's hard because I feel like I don't know.
Katrina 36:06
I got the same thing on both though. The questions are very similar.
Bailey 36:11
Mm hmm.
Meliza Manalo 36:14
I feel like I'm a hard book to read.
Bailey 36:16
You are. Because I don't really know anything about yours and Brandon's relationship.
Meliza Manalo 36:23
Our relationship?
Bailey 36:24
Because I don't ask. Because it's not my place to ask.
Meliza Manalo 36:26
I'm also a very private person.
Bailey 36:27
Yes, you are, honey. That's one of the qualities I love about you the most. That's because you have such a high level of self-respect and self-dignity.
Meliza Manalo 36:34
That's why it's weird to have these podcasts at the same time. Because I'm kind of a private person.
Bailey 36:38
Because you're kind of like opening up.
Meliza Manalo 36:40
Yeah, that's what I was saying.
Bailey 36:42
But it's good for you.
Katrina 36:42
I feel like social media has kind of opened you up a little bit.
Bailey 36:45
It's good for you. This is so like, you in your element.
Katrina 36:48
Yes.
Bailey 36:49
Like you are glowing right now. See, this is why we need the camera.
Meliza Manalo 36:55
Watch Mia grow... glow. Glow not grow.
Bailey 36:59
Grow and glow.
Katrina 37:00
Yeah both.
Bailey 37:02
Both. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 37:04
What do you think Casey? If you had to guess?
Katrina 37:07
If I had to guess I would think quality time. I'm not sure yet.
Bailey 37:11
Physical touch? No, I'm a narcissist so I think everyone's like me. Ummm... I want to say gifts. Because I feel like every time Brandon gets you a gift, it's a really good gift. And you're freaking. You're just like, "Oh, I can't believe you got me this knife set."
Meliza Manalo 37:31
Oh, that knife set is really good. I love those knives. Ahem... so, no. (Laughter) Casey is kinda... she's number two.
Bailey 37:44
Oohh.
Katrina 37:44
I'm gonna guess.
Meliza Manalo 37:45
So, my number one is 'Acts of service'.
Bailey 37:49
Ohh!
Meliza Manalo 37:50
Yeah. What? Why is your face like that?
Bailey 37:53
Because now I'm like, oh, I need to do more acts of service for Mia. And I need...
Katrina 37:59
But like, what does that mean to you?
Bailey 38:02
Like helping you move?
Katrina 38:04
So, what was your percent? Do you know?
Meliza Manalo 38:06
No. I didn't write it down. Sorry. It's like thirty something percent.
Bailey 38:08
Oh, wait, is this for Brandon?
Katrina 38:10
The couple one.
Meliza Manalo 38:11
Yeah, I took the couple one.
Bailey 38:12
Ohh.
Katrina 38:13
That's true.
Meliza Manalo 38:13
It does. It fits for every relationship, you know. I love when people do little things for me. I love when they don't think about it. If they know I'm having a hard time and then they do something to help me out without being asked, without being told. It's just like, they just feel they can help out and I love that. Because I like helping people out too. Even in Animal Crossing, I always pay bells for their bridges.
Bailey 38:43
Awww.
Meliza Manalo 38:45
But you guys don't play Animal Crossing. Wrong group.
Katrina 38:50
You should do one with them.
Meliza Manalo 38:51
Yeah, I want to do all kinds of interviews. I even want to go and branch out and interview random people. Or even listeners. I will even interview a listener. Anyone that wants a little platform to talk to, I'm down for that. So, if you guys listen to Chatty Broads, I love when they interview just random a*s, random people. Like they did a sex worker one, they've done people who read auras. They've done like, what else do they do?
Bailey 39:25
Birth charts?
Meliza Manalo 39:25
Yeah, just every walks of life. I think it's so fascinating learning about people's different occupations too. Even the super obscure ones. Like...
Bailey 39:37
Like a sex therapist?
Meliza Manalo 39:39
Yeah, like weird ones, too. Like, there's like a Sex witch?
Bailey 39:45
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 39:46
There's all kinds of different ones. Right now, it's just family. I'm gonna do one with Patrick. Patrick is so excited to do. He texted me he's like, "Lets catch up on the... "(burp sound). (Laughter) My bad. So, he texted me.
Bailey 40:06
(Laughter) That bobbing weave motion though.
Meliza Manalo 40:10
It was showing together on mic. I was like eww.
Bailey 40:16
Don't want to burp your Coronavirus on the mic. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 40:22
Oh my God. Anyways, Patrick texted me and said, "Good job on the podcast."
Bailey 40:28
Awww. He's such a sweetheart.
Meliza Manalo 40:28
And I was like, "Yeah I got to get you on there." And he's like, "Yeah." He's like, "I'm down this weekend." I was like, "Hold up." I need to plan this stuff. There are other episodes that I need to edit and stuff. But I want to get him on there. Yeah, because Patrick can talk for a day.
Katrina 40:43
Yeah, he can.
Meliza Manalo 40:44
He has thought about doing his own podcast.
Katrina 40:46
He is probably an introvert extrovert?
Bailey 40:49
I feel like he's an extrovert.
Meliza Manalo 40:50
Yeah. Social media beast? Extrovert. Real life Patrick? Probably a little more introverted. Not saying like he's not real on social media.
Katrina 41:01
He can talk and talk, but I think he's a little bit of an introvert.
Meliza Manalo 41:05
Because he doesn't. I don't know. Oh, I guess we'll get to that one. We get to his episode; I'll ask him what he thinks he is. I'll give him a little quiz or something to take. Anyways, what were we talking about?
Bailey 41:16
It'd be cool if you made your own quiz.
Meliza Manalo 41:19
Make my own quiz? I could.
Bailey 41:20
Like in Quizlet or something?
Meliza Manalo 41:22
Yeah.
Bailey 41:22
Just come up with different questions.
Meliza Manalo 41:24
I'm just not an expert on it. Because I just google stuff.
Bailey 41:28
But I feel like you can become an expert, the more you learn about it. Maybe after your first season, you'll have enough knowledge of interviewing different people. You'll be able to come up, like, you can start writing down questions as you're interviewing and talking with people about it. And then you can come up with your own quiz. And then, like going forward...
Katrina 41:47
Get to know your people.
Bailey 41:48
Yeah. It could be something for your listeners to take part of and then your listeners can share their answers like on Instagram and stuff.
Katrina 41:56
That'd be a great plan. Ask yourself. "Hey guys!"
Meliza Manalo 41:58
Yeah.
Katrina 41:58
Like, you know, introduce it in every episode so that every new...
Meliza Manalo 42:01
"Take my quiz."
Katrina 42:02
Yeah. Every new listener would like...
Bailey 42:04
Something that you plug at the beginning of each episode.
Katrina 42:06
Yeah. That's what it is. A plug.
Meliza Manalo 42:07
Yeah, that's a good one. I'll think about that.
Bailey 42:09
But like, yeah, dude. I feel like it's a basic thing that people should know about themselves.
Meliza Manalo 42:15
Yeah. I think so too. Because then it helps you realize what you prefer. Because I didn't think of myself as an introvert until later.
Bailey 42:23
You didn't?
Meliza Manalo 42:24
Well, I didn't think of myself as an extrovert either. But I didn't know stuff either way.
Katrina 42:29
Categorizing yourself.
Bailey 42:32
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 42:33
I'm not out there. Like now I'm, yeah, I'm an introvert. But back then I just...
Katrina 42:37
Yeah, that's like finding out about your zodiac. You love to learn.
Bailey 42:40
Yes.
Katrina 42:41
It just depends on whatever you like to be.
Bailey 42:43
Do you all know your zodiac? Like your Sun, Moon and Rising?
Katrina 42:47
No.
Meliza Manalo 42:47
I just know I'm a Capricorn.
Katrina 42:49
I just know the real one. Just not the Sun, Moon.
Meliza Manalo 42:52
Yeah, I don't know what my Sun or Moon is either.
Bailey 42:56
So, my Sun is Leo because of my birthday. It's next week. Yayy! My birthday is August 12. So, my Sun sign is a Leo, but my Moon is...
Meliza Manalo 43:10
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Bailey 43:42
My Moon is Taurus and then my Rising is, what is it? Aquarius.
Meliza Manalo 43:48
Do you guys know a lot about that stuff? Cuz I think we can do an episode.
Bailey 43:50
I know a little bit about. I just know lately from listening Chatty Broads and doing my own research.
Meliza Manalo 43:55
I know nothing about it.
Katrina 43:56
I don't know in depth. I just know months and the Zodiac.
Meliza Manalo 44:02
Like I don't understand why where the moon is and the stars and the planets and how is that like.
Bailey 44:08
Listeners. If any of you listeners know a lot about Zodiac and want to read our charts, we can tell you our Sun, Moon and Rising. And you can tell us what that means.
Meliza Manalo 44:21
Ooh. Oh, you can go on the episode. DM me.
Bailey 44:22
Slide into those DMs.
Meliza Manalo 44:24
No one DMs me. (Laughter) Kind of a few.
Katrina 44:27
DMs are really hard though to keep.
Meliza Manalo 44:30
Plus, if you're an introvert, you know. That's why you feel like I don't have a lot of engaging people either. But I don't know. Whatever. That's all good.
Katrina 44:40
Yeah. Start small.
Meliza Manalo 44:44
Okay, so yeah. So, it's 'Acts of service', then my second is 'Quality time', 'Words of affirmation', 'Gifts' and then 'Physical touch' is my last one.
Bailey 44:54
Haww. Really?
Katrina 44:55
Yeah. She hates it when people touch.
Bailey 44:57
Oh duh.
Meliza Manalo 44:58
Yeah. Didn't you know that?
Bailey 45:00
Do you remember that one time in high school where you had something on your face, and I licked my thumb and tried to get it off?
Meliza Manalo 45:07
Oh my God. I flinched so hard.
Bailey 45:09
You freaked out and Courtney started laughing. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 45:13
I absolutely hate it when people touch my face.
Katrina 45:17
Face.
Meliza Manalo 45:20
Yeah. I can't tell you how many times someone tried to take an eyelash off. It's my face, like I don't care if you're doing that, but my face in general, I cannot let someone touch my face.
Bailey 45:32
So, Brandon, does he ever grab your face and kiss your face?
Meliza Manalo 45:37
Yeah, and I don't.
Bailey 45:38
You don't like it?
Meliza Manalo 45:40
Not really. I know he hates it. Because he likes touching my face, but...
Katrina 45:45
Awww.
Bailey 45:47
Awww. You guys are so frickin cute.
Meliza Manalo 45:49
I don't know what is with my face. I don't know if it's some childhood trauma. I have no clue what the basis is with my face specifically. Because everything else is like, whatever.
Bailey 45:59
I mean, you don't have to know though. Like just, it'd be how it'd be. It'd be like that. (Laughter) That's what the kids are saying. It'd be like that sometimes. But not sometimes. In this situation, always. Never touch the face.
Meliza Manalo 46:15
Never touch the face. I don't know if my listeners know what I look like because I don't post selfies on Instagram or anything.
Bailey 46:21
Girl.
Meliza Manalo 46:22
My account is private on Instagram, my personal account. But if you watch Casey's videos, I'm on some of them. (Laughter) But if you ever see me in public, please do not touch my face. I'll just freak out. I'll just run away. (Laughter)
Bailey 46:40
Oh my God. Do you want to hear the creepiest story ever?
Meliza Manalo 46:43
Is this the gas station story?
Bailey 46:45
Yeah!
Meliza Manalo 46:46
Okay, yeah. I don't know if Casey knows about that one.
Katrina 46:49
I don't.
Bailey 46:49
Okay, so I was at a gas station and I was pumping gas. And there was this dude across the way at the other pump. And he saw me, and he walked over. I was like...
Meliza Manalo 47:07
Just someone rando too?
Bailey 47:09
Old.
Meliza Manalo 47:10
Eww.
Bailey 47:11
Old creepy rando.
Meliza Manalo 47:12
It's old people.
Bailey 47:14
Well, don't be creepy then.
Katrina 47:15
Don't be creepy.
Bailey 47:16
Then don't be creepy. But I was 23.
Katrina 47:19
What time of the day was it though?
Bailey 47:20
It was like an afternoon. So, it wasn't at nighttime. But I was 23-24. Because we had the same car, and I kind of just said like, "Oh, hey, we have the same car." I guess I invited it. (Laughter) Casey's face right now. Well, then he came over and he was like, "There's something on your face." And he tried to wipe something off of my face.
Katrina 47:50
Eww.
Bailey 47:50
And I was just like, what just happened?
Katrina 47:54
And he just walked away?
Bailey 47:55
Yeah. I got in my car and drove off. I was scared. I was so scared.
Meliza Manalo 48:01
That is so weird.
Katrina 48:03
That's weird.
Meliza Manalo 48:04
Did you wash your face after?
Bailey 48:05
Yes. When I got home. And what's even weirder is that the house, that you guys used to live in together? I was leaving your house and I turned out on the main road. And I was driving, and I saw his car.
Meliza Manalo 48:19
Oh creepy.
Bailey 48:21
It was terrifying.
Meliza Manalo 48:24
Yeah. I don't touch people's face.
Bailey 48:25
I mean, especially a stranger, a young girl.
Katrina 48:28
A stranger. Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 48:29
At the gas station too, he just held the gas pump.
Bailey 48:32
A young girl at a gas station.
Katrina 48:35
That's scary. Don't do that.
Bailey 48:36
Yeah. Don't ever do that. If someone did that to me now, oh, I'm not the right person to do that to. I would come unglued if somebody ever. If I was at a gas station and somebody started walking up towards me, you know, I'll go to jail defending myself. I don't care. You know what I mean? Like no, that's not a good idea to do that to me. But I'm crazy. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 49:08
That's good though.
Katrina 49:09
Yeah.
Bailey 49:10
But when we were at the park. Remember?
Meliza Manalo 49:12
Mm hmm.
Bailey 49:13
We were just sitting on a bench and this dude on a bike came like rolling up. And it was weird because we were sitting right here, and he walked right in front of us to get to the water fountain. And I didn't really know what to do. I think that's like a social anxiety. I think what I should've done is maybe, I didn't want to get up though and move.
Meliza Manalo 49:37
Like have a confrontation also?
Bailey 49:40
Yeah. I didn't want to do that. I didn't think that was appropriate. But it's just like, just don't do that. Especially to two females, like don't ever roll up on to women, or a woman or really anybody in any public situation.
Katrina 49:56
That kind of happened to me when I went to the gas station, right there on the corner. Not that one, but the one over there.
Bailey 50:01
Yeah.
Katrina 50:02
I was with Leah and I was just about to drop her off from home. Where were we? I don't know. It was just like past week. Anyways, it was dusk, kind of like already dark but the lights still out. And this car parked right behind you, and we pulled up to get gassed. I was like, of course, he chose the one right next to me. Why couldn't you choose the one over there? But then it was like females. Okay. If she's out here, I'll be out here with her. And then this guy just started walking and got her attention and was talking. And she was kind of freaked out a little bit. But she had somebody in the car with her too. Just like I had Leah in the car, just in case, because I would never get gassed when it's late night. It's too scary. Anyways, he just came up to me. And he said something, I just got in the car, because she got into the car right away. And then we just went to our way. I was like, what? Like, why do you come up to like, that's so scary. Especially at that time of day.
Meliza Manalo 50:56
If he was getting questions, just go into the store and ask the clerk or something.
Bailey 51:01
Yeah, see, if somebody did that to me, I would pull out my pepper spray and be like, "Hey, what's up? Is there something I can help you with?" I've done that before.
Meliza Manalo 51:13
Because they can ask a question from afar.
Bailey 51:14
Yeah.
Katrina 51:15
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 51:15
If they have a legit question, that's fine. But be a little farther away, so we don't feel threatened, you know. And that's sad that we have to say that. Because I'm not trying to say all men are bad. If I see a guy come up to me, that's the first thing I'm going to think of.
Bailey 51:31
Oh, it's not just about men, I would do the same thing to a woman too. If any person come rolling up on me. I remember one time I was at a gas station filling up a U-Haul right before I was about to return it. And this young kid, young punk on a bike came rolling up super-fast and he was like, "Hey, you got any money?" And I came unglued on him. I don't know if I should say in detail because it's a bit explicit. But basically, to the fact that, get the bleep away for me. Right bleeping now. I will bleep you up. Get the bleep out of my face. Cuz I just don’t...
Meliza Manalo 52:12
Tolerate that?
Bailey 52:12
Uh huh. I'm crazy. I sleep with a bat by my bed. And I sleep with my windows open too. Every night to get my AC a rest. You have to in Sacramento.
Katrina 52:23
Yeah. We rest it at night too.
Bailey 52:25
But I keep fans in front of my windows so that if anybody did try to come in, they'll trip over the fan. But even if, I mean, you know, I mean, it's fight or flight. And what? I'm just gonna stand there while somebody tries to assault me? I mean I feel really weird putting this out into the universe because I feel like it's going to happen. Because I have never been in a situation where somebody rolled up on me with a knife or anything trying to mug me.
Meliza Manalo 52:55
But we live in an area where that happens a lot. It happens all the time.
Bailey 52:59
That's why I'm surprised. It has never happened to me. I think maybe I just give off that vibe. Because I'm so muscular.
Katrina 53:08
You're not a frail little girl.
Bailey 53:10
I'm not. I'm short. I'm a short stack.
Meliza Manalo 53:14
You're not short.
Bailey 53:16
I'm 5'4".
Katrina 53:16
You're not short. You're taller than both of us.
Meliza Manalo 53:18
Yeah.
Bailey 53:19
I'm 5"4". I guess maybe that's average.
Katrina 53:20
Average.
Meliza Manalo 53:21
Average.
Bailey 53:22
But I can puff my chest up real tall. I think because I just have that natural stature like nobody fucks with me. Oops. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 53:33
No. We're always really careful.
Katrina 53:36
Yeah. We have to be.
Meliza Manalo 53:37
Because we have gone through stories.
Bailey 53:39
That's just a part of it. When you're all together when that dude came right into the backyard.
Katrina 53:46
That was insane!
Meliza Manalo 53:47
Leah slept through the whole thing.
Bailey 53:49
Of course, she did.
Meliza Manalo 53:49
She even slept when the police came. She's like she saw some lights. (Laughter)
Katrina 53:55
Yeah. I don't even think I was asleep.
Bailey 53:56
She's like, "Oh, there's lights in my backyard. Weird"
Meliza Manalo 53:58
Yeah. What's that though?
Bailey 54:00
What's this? Is that the scariest? Or is there something scarier? We're kind of going off on a weird tangent here that has nothing to do with love languages.
Meliza Manalo 54:08
That's fine.
Bailey 54:09
But I think y'all are enjoying the ride.
Meliza Manalo 54:11
We did talk about our love languages. Don't touch my face. Do something else for me.
Katrina 54:16
But yours. We didn't say yours. Oh yeah, we did.
Bailey 54:19
I just realized that's your butt.
Meliza Manalo 54:20
Quality time is really important to me.
Katrina 54:23
That's why I thought it was your number one.
Bailey 54:25
That's why we should go swimming after this. Because it'd be a good way to cool off and it's gonna be super-hot by the time we're done with this.
Meliza Manalo 54:33
Oh my God. Yeah.
Bailey 54:34
Do you have a bathing suit?
Katrina 54:36
Mmhmm. You didn't tell me.
Bailey 54:37
Girl. Oh, I'm sorry.
Meliza Manalo 54:37
On the text, I said I was gonna bring mine just in case.
Katrina 54:40
I didn't see it. I worked a double. I was barely even on my phone. And I had my dentist.
Meliza Manalo 54:45
Oh yeah, I forgot.
Katrina 54:46
So, it was kind of hard to catch up. I was just trying to see if you guys were still there.
Meliza Manalo 54:50
I don't know if any of this is interesting. But it's okay. We always go off on the tangent. We're almost at an hour actually. So, I do cut some parts out. So, it's like a full hour.
Katrina 55:02
Wow.
Meliza Manalo 55:02
Actually no. It'll probably be a full hour.
Bailey 55:05
Well, because we recorded in there too. But that was random.
Meliza Manalo 55:09
I don't know, but we started in here. Because I did the intro in here.
Bailey 55:13
That's true.
Meliza Manalo 55:14
Yeah. Oh, and what were we saying? Oh, are scary stories.
Bailey 55:17
Yeah, from living in the house.
Meliza Manalo 55:19
So, one of the things, I don't know if Chatty broads or somebody does this. I know one of the podcasts. They do. But they always have the question they have to ask the guests every time.
Bailey 55:29
So, for chatty broads, it's 'If you were on death row, what would your final meal be? Anything you want.'
Meliza Manalo 55:36
So, I want to make up a question. I haven't done it yet.
Katrina 55:39
So, your people can interact.
Meliza Manalo 55:40
Yeah, like what's a good question to ask?
Katrina 55:43
That's actually a really good thing, too. I follow a YouTuber who is like, "If you're still watching this video, leave a comment saying 'this'." Like every episode, they do a random.
Meliza Manalo 55:53
One question to ask every single guest they have. But I don't know, but our scary stories feel like, when we lived together, so we did have that guy...
Katrina 56:02
Jumping the fence?
Meliza Manalo 56:03
Yeah, he was jumping on the fence.
Katrina 56:05
At 3 am.
Meliza Manalo 56:06
Yeah, and our neighbor luckily had a gun on him.
Katrina 56:12
Cocked it.
Meliza Manalo 56:12
Yeah. And I was like, thank God for him, honestly. Because he stopped that guy. And nothing happened. No one was shot or anything. It was kind of more of a scare tactic. And then we got the police.
Katrina 56:26
Yeah, the police was in our backyard.
Meliza Manalo 56:28
Yeah. But I guess he's just hopping through people's fences trying to get away.
Bailey 56:32
Didn't y'all yell out to the police though? Through the window? Like, "Hey, he's back. He's over there."
Katrina 56:37
No.
Meliza Manalo 56:37
No, they just showed up and then they went through our backyard.
Katrina 56:39
And we were just watching them wandering.
Meliza Manalo 56:41
Yeah, we were just like in the windows. We kept going through the windows. We would start in the living room then we all went to like...
Katrina 56:48
And we all try to be so quiet.
Meliza Manalo 56:50
Yeah. Just trying to figure out what was happening. Because there's some weird things that happened.
Bailey 56:55
That's a really weird little neighborhood too.
Katrina 56:57
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 56:57
Yeah, that was some weird stuff.
Bailey 56:58
Right across from that park, all those tweakers.
Meliza Manalo 57:01
Like we had our neighbor. Oh my God, she was crazy. I don't know, Jesus.
Katrina 57:07
She got into so many fights.
Meliza Manalo 57:08
She also had bipolar disorder. But she was also an alcoholic, I think. I'm pretty sure she was an alcoholic.
Bailey 57:19
That ain't no excuse.
Meliza Manalo 57:20
Yeah. There like a private investigator that came to our house asking questions about her. One time she was so drunk. She was just outside her house and she took off her clothes dude.
Bailey 57:33
Oh, you saw her titties?
Meliza Manalo 57:34
Yeah.
Bailey 57:35
Eww.
Meliza Manalo 57:35
She was just taking it off. I don't understand what was happening. She was just drunk, she took off her clothes.
Bailey 57:40
Drugs, baby. Drugs. That's called meth honey. How many teeth she had? Three or four?
Meliza Manalo 57:45
And then she was like super sleepy and she just slept on her lawn.
Bailey 57:49
Yeah, baby. That's called meth.
Meliza Manalo 57:50
And we're like huh, great. But she has a 10-year-old son. But he doesn't live there.
Bailey 57:55
Well, that explains the private investigator. Doesn't it? Because this person is a mother.
Meliza Manalo 58:00
Yeah, I think the ex probably did something. To make sure she's in like custody or something. I don't know what their issue was.
Katrina 58:06
Yeah. She threw a glass on the street.
Meliza Manalo 58:09
Yeah. She throws glass on the street.
Bailey 58:10
Heck with that. I would be so po'd. She's lucky she was a mad neighbor. Because I would have went out there and probably ripped her damn hair out of her head.
Meliza Manalo 58:21
And her dog ripped a hole in our fence, remember? Because some random Pit Bull just came into our house. And we're like, "Whose dog is this?" (Laughter). I mean, luckily, it's a really nice dog.
Bailey 58:36
Could you imagine though if it wasn't?
Katrina 58:38
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 58:38
Yeah, that's scary.
Bailey 58:40
And that's nothing against Pit bulls obviously.
Meliza Manalo 58:42
Yeah. Nothing against. I love Pit Bulls.
Bailey 58:44
Me too.
Meliza Manalo 58:44
But if she didn't train it properly or she trained it to be...
Bailey 58:49
Aggressive?
Meliza Manalo 58:49
Like an attack dog. We got two little dogs. They're not gonna protect us from that. So, and then what else happened? Oh, down the street. Some guy, what is it? Like there are his two kids wanting to reconnect because they're estranged or whatever. But then he called the cops saying that the son had a gun against his head. But really, it was the opposite. So, the son came just to go visit the dad and the dad had a gun on his head. But the dad was trying to make it so that the kids went to jail. Because he was on probation, because he was doing drugs and stuff. That was scary.
Bailey 59:35
See, this is exactly why, if I was the creator of the universe, Queen of the world, everybody would be born sterile. And then if you wanted to have children, you could take an extensive training course at least a year long, if not longer, at the age of 27. (Laughter) And if you passed such training course, then you would be granted your fertility. Oh, I just spilled this water all over me.
Meliza Manalo 1:00:10
See this Soundwave. (Laughter) I don't think it can even record our laughter to maximum.
Bailey 1:00:19
Probably not.
Meliza Manalo 1:00:22
Oh my God.
Bailey 1:00:23
Oh goodness.
Katrina 1:00:25
Anyway, thanks guys. Thanks for having us.
Bailey 1:00:28
Thank you so much for listening if you seriously made it this far. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 1:00:34
I know because in our episode we were talking about like, we should just name this the 'Hot mess'. Because we're a hot mess when we are together.
Bailey 1:00:41
I mean, we certainly tried. We went in with the best of intentions. Like we're gonna reveal our love languages to each other. That's like 23% of the conversation.
Meliza Manalo 1:00:54
Seriously, I don't even know.
Katrina 1:00:55
Yeah, that's why I was really nervous. Because it was like, what are we gonna be talking about for so long about love language?
Meliza Manalo 1:01:02
Those are the best podcasts when they go off tangent.
Katrina 1:01:05
Oh yeah.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:06
Yeah. It's all good. I hope you guys thought this was fun.
Bailey 1:01:12
We certainly did. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 1:01:15
I'll definitely have Casey and Bailey on more often.
Bailey 1:01:18
Yayyayy!
Meliza Manalo 1:01:18
Maybe we can do a regular thing.
Bailey 1:01:21
Oooh.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:22
We can name ourselves something. The Bewitches. (Laughter)
Bailey 1:01:28
No, we have to include Leah.
Katrina 1:01:29
We should.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:30
Yeah, that'll be a different one.
Bailey 1:01:33
Leah, riddle me this. Why don't you live here? Like come on, bro. When you moved to Virginia, you broke my heart. My achy breaky heart.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:46
We can zoom her.
Katrina 1:01:47
Yeah.
Bailey 1:01:48
I miss her so much.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:49
We should zoom her right while she's on the podcast.
Bailey 1:01:51
Oh! we should.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:53
Do you have a webcam?
Bailey 1:01:54
I do have a webcam.
Meliza Manalo 1:01:57
We'd have to figure it out. (Laughter)
Katrina 1:02:03
That could be like if you didn't like cover.
Meliza Manalo 1:02:08
Next time bring your camera. And check out Casey's YouTube channel. Sorry Katrina's.
Bailey 1:02:13
Check out Casey's YouTube channel. Oh, Katrina.
Katrina 1:02:15
You can find me under both on YouTube though. You can pretty much find me on both on anywhere now. Because it's so open that everyone calls me. Like a lot of people call me Casey. So, I put it in, so people could find me better.
Bailey 1:02:26
You put it in your 'About me'.
Katrina 1:02:29
Yeah, sure.
Bailey 1:02:30
'Call me Casey.'
Meliza Manalo 1:02:32
Do you like being called 'Casey' or 'Katrina' more?
Katrina 1:02:34
It doesn't bother me at all.
Bailey 1:02:35
I cannot call you Katrina. I don't see you as a 'Katrina'. I'm sorry.
Katrina 1:02:39
I don't even like the name Katrina for myself.
Bailey 1:02:41
You just literally look like a 'Casey'.
Meliza Manalo 1:02:43
'Casey' is a fun name.
Bailey 1:02:44
And you emulate...
Meliza Manalo 1:02:45
Fun girl.
Bailey 1:02:46
Yeah. It Girl.
Meliza Manalo 1:02:49
'Katrina' is very like serious.
Bailey 1:02:52
Yeah.
Katrina 1:02:52
I agree. I don't even really like saying my own name.
Bailey 1:02:54
Like 'Preppy biatch'.
Meliza Manalo 1:02:57
Like mean girls.
Katrina 1:02:58
You even think that like Katrina would come out like a common name, right? Because of the hurricane. But when you go to stores and buy the key chain, I can never find my name. Ever.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:08
Well, I mean, Katrina is kind of a tragic name. (Laughter)
Bailey 1:03:13
I was going to say it. It kind of has a negative connotation. On account of the hurricane that like destroyed one of the most beautiful cities in our country.
Katrina 1:03:27
That is so true.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:28
I don't think people are taking those names, naming their kids after that.
Bailey 1:03:32
Dude. How old are y'all when... 2005? I was 13.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:36
2005. Freshman
Katrina 1:03:37
I was in fifth grade.
Bailey 1:03:39
You were a freshman?
Meliza Manalo 1:03:41
Wait. When did we start high school?
Bailey 1:03:43
2007.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:43
2006.
Bailey 1:03:45
2006.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:46
Yeah. Okay. So, yeah. Eighth grade.
Bailey 1:03:48
Yeah. I was 13-14.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:50
Oh God! Remember poem in the yearbook.
Katrina 1:03:54
You remember it?
Bailey 1:03:55
You're such an intellectual.
Meliza Manalo 1:03:57
Intellectual? Yeah, I guess. Sure. What was I gonna say?
Bailey 1:04:03
Do you remember the poem?
Meliza Manalo 1:04:06
No.
Katrina 1:04:06
That's what I just asked.
Meliza Manalo 1:04:07
I think I have the yearbook though. So, I can look it up. But I mean, anything before college is cringy. (Laughter)
Bailey 1:04:15
Yeah dude. That's called being human.
Meliza Manalo 1:04:17
So, I don't know if I want to read it anymore.
Bailey 1:04:19
Come on. We were all 13 once. Weeby little 13-year-olds. I thought I was the hottest of the hottest shitbag.
Meliza Manalo 1:04:28
Oh really?
Bailey 1:04:29
Oh, yeah, of course I did. Hello! It's me.
Meliza Manalo 1:04:32
I was the bad girl. I was the bad influence.
Bailey 1:04:35
The baddy?
Meliza Manalo 1:04:36
Because I went to a private middle school. And I had the highlights.
Bailey 1:04:42
Hmmm. You were the black sheep, huh? Yeah.
Katrina 1:04:44
And I was so shy back then. I was so shy. I definitely blossomed by eighth grade. I think that's when my personality came out. For sure.
Meliza Manalo 1:04:53
I blossomed now. It took me a while.
Bailey 1:04:56
Yeah, me too. For sure.
Meliza Manalo 1:04:57
Because yeah. I was just talking to me about this actually the other day. I was like, I love me now. I wish I was me back then.
Bailey 1:05:06
Amen, sister. You are preaching to the choir.
Meliza Manalo 1:05:11
I mean, like, in your early 20s, you're kind of still finding yourself. You're trying to figure yourself out. So, I get that.
Bailey 1:05:17
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 1:05:18
I like me. I like me now. I like my personality now.
Bailey 1:05:21
Me too.
Katrina 1:05:22
I got a cramp in my foot.
Meliza Manalo 1:05:23
Okay, so this is over. (Laughter)
Katrina 1:05:25
No!
Meliza Manalo 1:05:25
Because Casey... (Laughter)
Bailey 1:05:28
My ass is starting to fall asleep.
Katrina 1:05:31
I really love that necklace really. That's really cute.
Bailey 1:05:34
Which one?
Katrina 1:05:35
The Disney with the Mickey. The castle and Mickey. It's really cute.
Bailey 1:05:40
Thanks.
Meliza Manalo 1:05:42
I like it too. Listeners are like, what? (Laughter)
Katrina 1:05:49
It's so cute! If I were in love with Disney as much as yours, I'd probably get that tatted on me. That's super cute.
Bailey 1:05:56
I kind of have it tattooed on me.
Meliza Manalo 1:05:58
Yeah, that's true.
Katrina 1:05:59
Yeah.
Bailey 1:05:59
I did it without the Mickey.
Meliza Manalo 1:06:01
Yeah. Just the castle.
Bailey 1:06:03
Yeah. That's cute.
Katrina 1:06:04
Another one here. The Aries constellation.
Bailey 1:06:08
Oh. Cute. Yeah, you should look up your Moon and...
Meliza Manalo 1:06:12
You sun and your whatever?
Bailey 1:06:14
No, your moon and your Rising. Also known as your Ascendant.
Meliza Manalo 1:06:17
I know nothing about astrology.
Katrina 1:06:18
You really don't. You're a Capricorn.
Meliza Manalo 1:06:22
Yeah.
Bailey 1:06:23
Your Sun sign is what you project out into the world, your Moon is your emotional, really describes and defines your emotional being, and then your Rising, I don't know why this one is hard for me to remember. This is why I am, by no means, an expert on this topic. But listeners tell us Rising is like how you think of yourself. Like how you see yourself.
Katrina 1:06:54
It's a lot of work. Astrology is a lot of work.
Meliza Manalo 1:06:56
Yeah, that's just too much.
Katrina 1:06:58
Let alone to know about yourself for just one simple zodiac, you know, everyone goes and reflects on the one that everyone knows.
Meliza Manalo 1:07:05
Everyone knows. Yeah.
Bailey 1:07:05
Yeah. Which is based off of your birthday. So, you're an Aries sun sign because you are April 17th.
Katrina 1:07:10
Yeah. Exactly.
Bailey 1:07:11
And you're Capricorn. The old-fashioned Cap.
Meliza Manalo 1:07:14
My dad is the first day of Capricorn. And I'm the last day.
Bailey 1:07:18
That's so cool.
Meliza Manalo 1:07:18
Mom and my brother are in the middle.
Bailey 1:07:20
In the middle? That's so cool.
Katrina 1:07:21
Capricorn family.
Meliza Manalo 1:07:23
Yeah. That's why we hate each other.
Bailey 1:07:26
See, like, I'm a Leo. My sun sign is Leo but for those of y'all who really 'know me' know me, I'm not a Leo.
Meliza Manalo 1:07:35
Oh really?
Bailey 1:07:36
Do you think so?
Meliza Manalo 1:07:36
I don't know anything about it.
Bailey 1:07:38
Well Leos are attention whores. They like compliments.
Katrina 1:07:43
Some aspects of it. Yeah, my dad is a Leo too.
Meliza Manalo 1:07:45
Yeah. Brandon is a Leo and you and Brandon are a lot alike. Which I think, that's why we're friends.
Katrina 1:07:49
There's a lot of similarities for your Sun. Well, that's how they all tie down. Like the similarities of each category of a zodiac, you know?
Bailey 1:07:58
Yeah, exactly.
Meliza Manalo 1:08:00
Is astrology a religion?
Bailey 1:08:01
No, it's just like...
Meliza Manalo 1:08:04
(Whispering) 'Universe'.
Bailey 1:08:04
Yeah. This is why you guys need to know yours. Because my moon is a Taurus. And that makes a lot of sense because I am stubborn as heck. And I have a tendency to believe that the way I think is the only correct way to do things. I can be very narrow minded in that sense. But then, how I see myself as Aquarius, moody, self-centered. So, when you put them all together, it just makes a lot of sense.
Meliza Manalo 1:08:36
It makes you.
Bailey 1:08:36
That's why I want to know what your guys' are. Because it would make... it would tell, it says so much about you, I feel like.
Meliza Manalo 1:08:42
Do you guys know anyone? Or listeners if you guys know anyone that can read it? What? Do they read your sign? Do you take a quiz? How does this work?
Bailey 1:08:51
I'll send you guys the website. You're talking about reading a chart. Reading a chart, that's like level...
Meliza Manalo 1:08:59
Like professional, got to pay-for-it kind of?
Bailey 1:09:01
Exactly.
Meliza Manalo 1:09:01
I don't want to do that.
Bailey 1:09:02
But I'll send you guys the website. You just need to know where you were born and the time. So, if you have access to your birth certificate.
Meliza Manalo 1:09:08
Okay. Yeah. I was born in...
Bailey 1:09:11
I can't even remember what time I was born.
Meliza Manalo 1:09:13
Okay, I don't remember.
Bailey 1:09:14
And then the city and state where you were born, because it has a lot to do with longitude and latitude. Yeah, because that has to do with the location and time that you were brought into this world. It has a lot to do with where the planets were in alignment. And their rotation around the sun. But it's also the year too. So, it would have to be nineteen ninety...
Meliza Manalo 1:09:38
Two. Yeah. (Laughter)
Bailey 1:09:47
1992 was legit. One of the best years ever.
Meliza Manalo 1:09:50
Oh yeah.
Bailey 1:09:51
Best year for music, film, pop culture. It's before all the OJ mess.
Meliza Manalo 1:09:57
The OJ mess. Oh my God.
Bailey 1:09:59
Yeah. The catastrophe.
Meliza Manalo 1:10:00
Let's do an episode on astrology then. I know nothing about it.
Katrina 1:10:04
It's kind of fun to read. I know a lot about some sun signs. Like majority of each and just categorizing your friends and knowing.
Bailey 1:10:13
I only know about mine.
Meliza Manalo 1:10:14
Cuz we're all different, too. We're all different.
Bailey 1:10:16
I'll send you guys. (Mic rub sound) Sorry, I keep hitting this, hopefully that doesn't come up too bad on something. I'll send you guys the website where you can literally just type in your information. It asks for your name, but you can literally just put 'zzz' or something if you don't like giving away your personal name. And then it'll tell you about what it means.
Meliza Manalo 1:10:39
Okay.
Katrina 1:10:39
One of my friends is really good with astrology.
Bailey 1:10:42
Oh, maybe she could be on the podcast.
Meliza Manalo 1:10:45
Is she cool though? (Laughter)
Katrina 1:10:48
She can sit with us. She is a fire sign. Sagg.
Bailey 1:10:51
Ooh.
Katrina 1:10:53
Sagittarius.
Bailey 1:10:54
Yeah, fire fire.
Katrina 1:10:57
Triple fire.
Meliza Manalo 1:10:58
Am I a fire? What's a fire?
Katrina 1:10:59
I think you're an...
Bailey 1:11:01
Capricorn? That's not a fire.
Katrina 1:11:02
You're an Air or earth.
Bailey 1:11:07
Air sign. Yeah. We're fires.
Katrina 1:11:10
We're fires. Sagittarius, Aries, and Leos. (Whispering) Fire signs.
Bailey 1:11:13
Those fire signs. They just be having that extra flavor. You know what I'm saying. Real spicy too.
Meliza Manalo 1:11:21
Am I? I'm pretty chill. I feel like, compared to you guys, I'm pretty chill.
Bailey 1:11:22
Oh, yeah. Well, you are. But you're still like...
Katrina 1:11:29
Fire signs are hyper.
Meliza Manalo 1:11:31
Hyper?
Bailey 1:11:32
Yeah.
Meliza Manalo 1:11:32
I'm not hyper.
Bailey 1:11:33
Well, no, you're not. But you're just like, I don't know. Yeah, you're cool. You're cool like a fucking cucumber, baby. Me, I have zero fucking chill. Zero chill. (Laughter)
Meliza Manalo 1:11:44
Sorry.
Bailey 1:11:45
I want to go swimming so bad. Are you guys ready?
Meliza Manalo 1:11:47
I need to pee. All right, we're ending this podcast. Thanks, guys for listening.
Bailey 1:11:51
Thank you so much for listening.
Katrina 1:11:52
Thank you! Can't wait for next time. Bye.
Bailey 1:11:55
Bye.
Meliza Manalo 1:11:57
Alright guys, I hope you enjoyed the episode just as much as I did, because I love talking to my girls. And I can't wait to do even more episodes with them. I hope you learned a little bit about your love languages or love languages in general. Again, I will link the quiz in the description so you could go and take it and research it yourself and look it up. It's super interesting and then I hope you find it helpful. And please, if you enjoy the show, please rate, review it on Apple podcasts and anywhere else where you can rate and review the podcast. Also, please follow me on social media. I'm on Instagram, Facebook. I also upload these to YouTube. You can find all my information in the description as well as going to my website at thetalkativeintrovertpodcast.com. Alright guys. Well, I hope you enjoyed that, and I will talk to you in the next episode. Thanks.
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